OUT ON THE WRONG LIMB

Miraculously, Janie and I managed to get away with our hooky-playing escapade. The next day Mr. Peeler rang the fire drill bell without warning the teachers at the exact time we were supposed to go watch a Weekly Reader film, and the whole school got sidetracked, so Mrs. Gravitts and Mrs. Byrd never got around to asking anybody for their absent notes. I had a story ready, but I’ll bet Janie was on pins and needles and probably praying. Maybe it was her praying that caused Mr. Peeler to decide to have a fire drill that morning.

We were excited all week because her mother had given her permission to come spend the night with me on Friday. Since my mind was so consumed with trying to be good because of Mr. Gravitts’ disease, when the rest of the class was studying long division and reading Longfellow, my brain felt the need to retreat into visions and dreams of a more restful nature. That week they included what activities Janie and I could entertain ourselves with that might change her mind about my taste in fun. By the time Friday rolled around, I had everything planned out.

After supper Julie went out on a date with old Travis Wayne. That was at seven, so we had a few hours for me to get Janie trained for the great caper that wouldn’t actually begin until a little before 10:00, which was Julie’s curfew. For the first hour, I taught Janie how to cook Rice-a-Roni (the San Francisco Treat) because it dawned on me in the middle of supper that we didn’t usually have dessert, and most people, like Janie, did. Both my Mother and Daddy were better cooks with one hand tied behind their back than anybody else’s parents, and by the time we had eaten their shrimp gumbo, t-bone steaks, or Italian spaghetti, none of us ever wanted dessert. The way I figured it, Rice-a-Roni could count as dessert, since that was my best thing to cook, and at the same time I could announce to Janie, “Hey, how about a lesson in the culinary arts?” (“Culinary” was one of my new “c” words, and I was anxious to try it out.)

After dessert, we took turns pantomiming records using a banana as a microphone and then it was time for me to begin her training in climbing on top of the house. The plan was to spy on Julie and old Travis Wayne when they came home and parked in front of the house after their date. Being in the ninth grade, they had pretty much gotten to be creatures of habit, so I could predict exactly when they would drive up and exactly where they would park. There was a perfect limb to sit on and spy, but the only way to get up to it was from the roof of the house. Mother had the Coke truck make regular stops at our house every week to deliver seven cases of Cokes to us just like they did to the stores, so if Janie couldn’t climb, we could have just stacked up Coke cases as high as she needed us to. Turns out, Janie, being a country kid, was a pretty good climber, so we just sat up there in the cold and practiced our howling for that extra twenty minutes before they got home instead of knocking the Coke cases over several times until she could achieve her balance, as I had envisioned that morning during reading class.

Then there they were, pulling slyly up the curb and cutting off the headlights. We had a good perspective, but all we could see was them snuggling way over on his side. It looked like four or five more people could have fit in the front seat beside them; that’s how close they were. It’s funny that in all that time I never thought about them like I thought about me and Johnny Paul kissing on the front porch after the Black Cats ran out; all I could think about was how on earth Julie could let somebody like Travis Wayne even talk her into getting into the same car with him, much less kiss her. That was probably more of a mystery to me than I had ever been to Johnny Paul. After only about five minutes, the windshield got all fogged up, and fog is a pretty boring thing to watch, so in grave disappointment and embarrassment, I told Janie we might as well climb down and go inside.

Janie seemed like she had a good time, but for some reason I could never figure out, she told her mother everything we did. Then after she got going, she lost all her inhibitions and told her about playing hooky the week before.

And that is why Janie was forbidden to set foot on our property after that weekend.

“Janie,” her mother told her, “you have no business skipping school, you have no business smoking cigarettes, and you have no business being on the roof of a house. And furthermore, people deserve their privacy, and it is wrong to sneak around and spy on them. If you are going to be friends with Jen, it will have to be out here on the farm. You may not go to her house anymore.”

This was a grave disappointment to me because Janie was somebody I really wanted to be close friends with. She was smart and interesting and knew how to be funny without ever doing anything wild or wrong. I thought that was pretty clever of her. It seemed like that if I could spend lots of time with her, I would have less of a chance to be bored into the kind of adventures that could send me to jail.

And not only that, but wouldn’t you know it? No sooner had Mother bought me that expensive necklace to help me save face with Johnny Paul than he discovered another mystery girl, my good friend Ruth Ann Foster. And the thing was Ruth Ann could not have cared less about Johnny Paul or any other boy. She was cute and spunky and I can see why he might have wanted to be her boyfriend for those reasons, but really and truly, I don’t think he even noticed her cuteness and spunk. I think he liked her because she did not like him, and that is both strange and stupid, if you ask me.

SCROUNGING FOR FUN

Maybe it was because I never sat still long enough to think about anything, much less deep things like divine providence, but life had just always seemed so random — like there was really no plan at all, maybe not even a Planner. You might go outside to recess, and since the pittypat court was already full, you might go over to the swings and start playing with somebody you’d never even seen, all the while thinking how all this was just a notion that was causing you to walk northwest to the swings rather than east to where they were pitching washers. But then when that person you start swinging with turns out to be your new best friend, you begin to wonder if maybe Somebody you can’t see whispered to you, “Don’t pitch washers today. Swing.” You wouldn’t think that right at the moment, of course, because some time would need to pass before you knew she would turn out to be that friend. But gradually, little by little, if you were ever still and quiet enough to think about things like why you do this and that and whether or not decisions are all a series of chances, you would probably come up with the concept of The Great Whisperer.

This is what was secretly happening to me the day that I began playing with Janie Simon. Janie was not in the band, and so she was in Mrs. Byrd’s room memorizing the Declaration of Independence, the Constitution of the United States, and “The Village Blacksmith” (the latter of which was written by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, whom I later learned was one of my dead relatives) while all of us musical kids were getting whacked day in day out by Mrs. Gravitts’ infamous board. Janie told me later that she worried so much when she heard all of that violence going on down the hall that whether she knew who was out there getting hit or not, she would immediately start praying for whoever it was.

She was a quiet girl whose daddy had died recently, and she lived out in the country with her mother and her five brothers and sisters. She even rode the bus to school, which is something I cannot say anybody else did that I was friends with. I also cannot say that anybody else I knew would have thought to just haul off and start praying for somebody they didn’t even know right in the middle of memorizing the Declaration of Independence when they weren’t even at church, about to eat a meal, or about to go to sleep at night. But this is pretty much the way Janie was. She seemed to know who I was even though I didn’t know her, and she certainly didn’t have any reason to want to play with me that day since I had not ever even bothered to know who she was like she knew who I was. But she was as friendly to me as a speckled pup; in fact, she was so nice you would have thought I had pulled her out of a burning building.

On days that I didn’t eat Billie’s hamburgers, I would go home for dinner. (I later learned that most other people called dinner “lunch,” but we didn’t say that word in Azalea Heights. It seemed to us like one of those hoity-toity practices like pronouncing almond “ahlmond” or calling a frog a “frahg.” For us there was just breakfast, dinner, and supper, always in that order, and I wouldn’t hear folks really use the “l” word on a regular basis until I was eighteen and in college out in West Texas.) This was at the beginning of when I had vowed to give Mrs. Gravitts some peace, and let me tell you, by dinnertime every day I was worn out from disciplining myself. I was having to tell my very own self “Shut up,” “Be still,” “Get to work,” and “Be nice,” and it was exhausting. I was used to other people doing it for me, and this was a whole new ballgame. Every day when I went home for lunch, I would be as creative as any ten-year old could be about new sudden-onset diseases, but there seemed to be no way to get Mother to buy any of what I was saying. She had learned well to distrust antics like this way back when I was a second-grader and had broken several thermometers in a week’s time by exploding them in the space heater. Nothing could break her skepticism.

So one day I decided to take the law in my own hands and began around ten-thirty in the morning to make a plan for the afternoon. I would play hooky. And since I had been wanting Janie to come over, this would be the perfect time to take her home with me for dinner.

I was pretty sure Janie wouldn’t go along with the hooky-playing idea, so I just went over to Mrs. Byrd’s room as soon as the dinner bell rang and asked her go eat with me at our house. After dinner, we left to walk back to school, but on the way, I delicately suggested that we just take a break this afternoon. She looked really confused, and for a minute, I thought I had made a bad choice for an accomplice, but after I promised to have her back in time to ride home on her bus, she allowed me free rein with her next three hours.

I knew exactly what we would do; it was all part of the vision I had dreamed up during arithmetic: we would wait until Mother and Daddy went back to work, go back to the house, get some of Daddy’s cigarettes and matches, and head for the ravine over behind Woodrow White’ house, who was the ex-mayor of Azalea Heights. I had always thought those woods were particularly pretty with their wild redbud and dogwood trees commingling with the tall pines that seemed crammed full of singing robins. They were all part of my vision.

But right off the bat, reality took a sharp turn from my dreams when Janie started asking lots of questions. The first one was “Now why do we want to smoke?” It was asked innocently and without judgment. She just thought she must have missed something in the explanation of our fun-filled agenda. I didn’t know WHY; it seemed pretty self-explanatory to me. We wanted to smoke because we COULD smoke. We had made a plan that would work; we had worked the plan, and now we just plain DESERVED to smoke. Next came the realization that unlike my dream scenario of loveliness, this was not springtime, the redbud and dogwoods were not blooming, there were no birds as far as we could see, and if there were, they were sleeping or mute. This was January, we were sitting in a ravine in the dark woods, and it was cold. Janie took an obligatory puff from her Lucky Strike, cocked her head, and asked me next, “Is this the fun you were talking about?”

We had almost two hours to go, and the prospects for having any real thrills suddenly looked bleak. We couldn’t go back to the house and get my b-b gun because my mother came home early from work many days, and we couldn’t go back to school because being tardy was worse than being absent. You’d get ushered up to Mr. Peeler’s office and he would start using his telephone to ruin your life. And then while you waited for your meanest parent to come to the school, he would bend you over his desk and paddle you with a heavier board than even Mrs. Gravitts had. So we just sat in the ditch shivering and occasionally jumped around and smashed chinquapins to generate a little heat.

You’d think that Janie would have decided then and there that she could find a better caliber of friend among all her choices at Azalea Heights Elementary School, one that she wouldn’t have to follow into perdition or retrain from scratch about how to have fun, one that she wouldn’t have to interrupt her memory work in order to pray for every time she heard Mrs. Gravitts wielding her paddle out in the hall, but for some reason — maybe it was The Great Whisperer again — she decided to stick with me and come over and spend the night the next Friday.

VAULTING INTO DECEPTION

Life is funny sometimes, and when you’re ten, you haven’t lived enough of it to have gotten used to its quirkiness. Just when you think you’ve gotten things figured out and can make some kind of intelligent predictions based on chronological occurrences, life will poke its head out from behind a curtain you didn’t even know was there and surprise the daylights out of you.First, your parents won’t take you to get stitches when you bust your head open. Then they start sending you to the show three nights a week. Next you begin to notice that your big sister is always getting studio pictures made for one reason or another but you never are, so you logically conclude that you aren’t held in esteem all that much and begin bracing yourself for more and more rejection. And then suddenly something happens that disproves your theory.

That‘s what happened to me in January when I went pole-vaulting with Johnny Paul over at the high school one Saturday. I had always longed to do anything that remotely resembled flying. I don’t mean just in my daddy’s yellow cub when he would take me up and let me control the stick from the back seat; I mean outside of any kind of craft — just naked-to-the-world flying. Once, a year earlier, Carla had convinced me that she and her brother had flown around their patio by jumping off their house with cardboard casket boxes strapped to their arms. (Their daddy owned a funeral home.) The way she told it, they had flapped their arms a little and just soared all around their backyard, so I strapped the boxes on my arms but decided it would be more fun to jump from the barn next door since it was taller than her roof. I had chipped two teeth and nearly bit an inch of my tongue clean off in that misguided attempt to fly.

Now it was January, and Johnny Paul was apparently still captivated by my mystery, so he agreed to teach me how to pole vault. I had visions of catapulting myself gracefully over a pole ten feet off the ground, so after he showed me how at five feet, I began to practice. Soon he had to go home, but I just stayed there and kept working at it. As I was leaving close to dark, I noticed my disk necklace missing from around my neck. After digging around in the sawdust until black dark with no success, I slunk home much crestfallen to tell Mother. (“Crestfallen” is one of the words I picked up from my nightly dictionary-perusal. When I found a word I like the sound of, I would be on pins and needles for the next few days keeping my ear inclined ever which direction to all conversations hoping to find a place I could fit it in gracefully.) I totally expected Mother to tell me I should have known better than to wear my disk while I was involved in such rigorous activity (just as though there were times when I was involved in any other kind of activity.) But this is when life pulled a fast one on me and shattered my preconceived notions. She took up my plight with a fair amount of sympathy and enthusiasm, admonishing me not to tell Johnny Paul or anyone else tomorrow at church. She had a plan.

On Monday after school, she took me downtown to all three jewelry stores in search of another necklace to replace it. But alas, none of them had one in sterling silver, only in yellow gold or white gold, both of which were way too expensive for a ten-year old tomboy with no sense of responsibility. However, to my surprise she bought the white gold one anyway, since it looked just like the silver one Johnny Paul had given me. I guess even though she believed in playing hard to get, she decided that since I had allowed myself to get caught, I should do whatever it took to stay on the hook and not get thrown back. It was strange to me that a parent was actually teaching me the ropes of deception.I might have learned a little about deception through that situation, but I also learned something good: that even though my mother didn’t deem me worthy of studio pictures, she did still love me and understand my problems and was willing to sacrifice for me in other ways more befitting my needs. What did a kid who wouldn’t brush the tangles out of her hair need with expensive studio pictures anyway?

ONE GIFT TOO FEW

(Dear Followers,
Although I will continue posting my Out of the Chute in Azalea Heights chapters, I plan to add some new devotional thoughts from my in-process second devotional book from time to time. Thank you for being my first readers.)

“…do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7

Ready or not, a new year is upon us. Most of us are in some stage of defrocking our lives of the all-out festivity we crazily plunged headlong into a few weeks back. We are ready to pack away the frills and get back down to business. We gather into trash bags the ripped-off wrappings of gifts, and we smile as we remember delighted faces beholding the surprise that had minutes ago been a titillating mystery.

We won’t tell anyone, of course, because after all, they all tried so hard… but for some of us, again this Christmas, we didn’t get what we really wanted. So once again we begin a new year feeling unsatisfied.

And really it’s nobody’s fault. What we want is nothing that can fit inside a box of any size. And nobody else could get it for us even if did. Of course there are varying degrees of disappointment about this commodity in everyone reading this, but I daresay we all harbor at least a little bit of unfulfillment concerning that which we all wish we could enter into a new year, at least once in our lives, totally unlacking.

Paz, Pax, Shalom…Peace. Though the word is a staple in all vocabularies, and in fact, is one of the few words that most of us know in at least one other language than our native one, the pictures and ideas that “peace” conjures up in the mind are vastly varied and sometimes even contradictory from one person to the next. Although we might not agree upon what it means, we all know it is the one thing we most desire for ourselves and the ones we most love. We all agree that if we could just have this one thing—peace—we would never want for anything else. It is also the one gift we most wish we could give to others. What does it take to find it? How much will it cost us to buy it? Will this new year bring us and those we love any closer to it than the last?

To some, peace means living in a nation that is not currently at war. However, such a simple definition of peace cannot reach within the soul; living in a nation that is not at war has little effect upon an embattled heart and a haunted mind. Likewise, it is possible to live amidst the violent clamor of minefields, hand grenades, and bombs and yet still possess a soul that is graced with serenity. Philippians 4:7 calls this “the peace of God that surpasses all understanding.”

The peace of God—the kind our minds can’t even fathom because it is so durable. That’s a peace worth pursuing this year, no matter how great the cost.